One Year Ago...

Dear Little One,
One year ago, you graced us with your presence. I still remember so many of the details. How is it possible that it was one year ago?

I remember the contractions starting and not being concerned. Big One took FOREVER to join us. You weren't so patient. 5 hours from the first contraction to your birth.

I remember waiting for Grandpa & Grandma to get to our house to watch Big One. We watched one of those late night celebrity gossip shows as we waited. They kept talking about pregnant celebrities.

I remember running a red light on the way to the hospital. We stopped first. But it was 1am and no one was around. The light wasn't changing so we went.

I remember stopping on the steps of the hospital to breathe through a contraction. The security guard shooing us to the elevator. The secretary that took forever. The long wheelchair ride to my delivery room. I remember them wheeling me past several open rooms wondering why they wouldn't just stop at one.

I remember them telling me I was progressing quickly and may not have time for an epidural. I remember crying. Pleading. I got my way. It kicked in quickly. The anesthesiologist didn't think it would. He was wrong. I won.

I remember you having difficulty breathing. I held you for a minute. Off to the nursery. An hour of recovery for me before I could join you on the mother/baby floor.

I remember your Daddy going home after we were settled in the room. Then the doctor on call came to tell me that you were on your way to the NICU. That was not in the plans.

I remember crying. A lot. Feeling cheated that all the other moms had their babies in the room while I had to rely on others to wheel me up 2 floors to the NICU.

I remember the first time I saw you in the NICU. You were crying. I held out my fingers and told you mommy was here. You grabbed my fingers and stopped crying.



I remember the guilt I felt. Not being with you constantly. Being torn between you at the hospital and Big One at home. Wanting to pick you up and carry you out of the hospital. What did the doctors know? I wanted my baby.

Looking back, I realize how lucky we were. You only had to stay in the NICU 5 days. It was more precautionary than anything. We were blessed to bring home a healthy baby girl. I know not all families are so lucky.

With tears in my eyes, I want to be the first to wish you a Happy Birthday, my sweet little girl. I can't wait to snuggle with you when you wake (and wipe your runny nose, my little sickling!). I can't wait to help Big One decorate your birthday cake. I can't wait for that smile to flash across your face.


Happy Birthday, Little One! It has been one crazy year full of laughter, tears and memories. We love you more than words can express. You added a piece to the family that we never knew was missing!

Love,
Mommy

10 comments:

Jeanne62383 said...

So sweet!!!! This was so heartfelt and wonderful. You have reduced me to a crying mess. Haha. Happy Birthday Little one!

amy lou. said...

Why did you not preface this with: "WARNING - find nearest box of Kleenex prior to reading this post." Happy Birthday, Lucy!

Jessi said...

That was so sweet, Shelley. You went through (and remember) quite a lot that night she blessed your "outside" world.

L sure is a cutie! Look at those teeth!

Can't wait to see the cake her master cake deorator of a mommy bakes up for her.

Happy 1st Birthday, L!

jen@odbt said...

So beautiful. Happy Birthday to your baby girl! Enjoy the day.

Jolene said...

This was a great post. It was so emotional. When you wrote that Little One stopped crying in the NICU after she grabbed your fingers, I got a little teary eyed! Happy Birthday to your beautiful baby girl!

Ethan, Zach, and Emma's Mom said...

That was beautiful, Shelley! There is a true connection between mothers and daughters, that's for sure. Happy Birthday, Little One!

Mama Bigs said...

That was awesome mama! You certainly have a way with words and miss Lucy is so blessed to have you as a mom! Happy birthday baby girl!!!!

Christy said...

Aww, happy birthday to her!

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AnastasiaSpeaks said...

Happy Birthday to your beautiful little girl!

:)